I believe that everythings happens for a reason, and today online, I found this…  it teaches us that in the good times, bad times, and in between times, no matter what happens, we gotta trust that there is a good reason for it!  And it’s also showing how at times  it’s a little bit easier to relate how things happen  for  a reason, and how we learn that in a little bit of a harder manner, and by that, you’ll see what  that means when yall read the all this artical…  and that’s the point exactly   …   EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON!

Knowing that there’s a reason for what happens also saves us from being filled with blame. Blame is a very human attempt to make sense of some catastrophe, but most of the time we hate the way it feels. And yet when something bad happens to us, it’s almost a reflex to think, It’s because everyone hates me, because I’m a loser, because I’m doomed. And so the blame begins.

We blame other people, and then we end up with the sense that the world is full of bad people. We blame ourselves, and then instead of feeling healthy, strong, and whole we see ourselves as sick, weak, and broken. And we blame life itself. What could be more demoralizing than feeling condemned to having bad things always happen to us and not being able to do anything about it?

Blame is like a boomerang that loops around and bonks us on the noggin. Try this yourself: If you see someone struggling with sadness, anxiety, and negativity, listen to his story. You’ll soon see he’s living in a world where all he sees are things to blame because he lives without positive meanings for what’s happened to him. The only cure is to restore the sense that there is a good reason for everything that happens